In Fond Memory of Thomas Charles O’Toole Jr.
A father, brother, and friend
1968-2021
MEMORIAL UPDATE: Relatives and friends are invited to attend Tom’s burial Service on March 17, 2023 (St. Patrick’s Day) at 12 PM, at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, 3301 W. Cheltenham Ave, Philadelphia, PA 19150. Friends are invited to gather at the (Stone) Main Office at 11:45 AM and to form a procession to the grave site.
Thomas Charles O’Toole Jr., passed away November 6, 2021 after a three-year battle with head and neck cancer. He was with loved ones at the end.
Born in Lansdale, Pennsylvania on July 22, 1968, Tom was the eldest of two children. However, he had countless friends that he considered family while growing up in Lansdale and attending North Penn High School (Class of 86’). Tom’s childhood dog, Buddy, fostered a lifelong love for animals; especially dogs.
Tom continued the family tradition and, like his father and grandfather before him, joined the United States Army. In the military, Tom worked as a Medical Specialist. He served during the Gulf war and received the National Defense Service Medal, as well as the Southwest Asia Service Medal.
This experience in the Army led him to pursue a career as an Registered Nurse (RN). He completed his LPN training in the Army and his RN training at the University of South Carolina (Go Cocks!!). Tom’s nursing career spanned over 25 years. He was always looking for a new challenge. This led him to work in many different specialties; ranging from pediatrics to geriatrics.
Tom had a love of travel, music, and Philadelphia sports teams. Tom was also very proud of his Irish heritage. His favorite place to travel was Europe, but especially Ireland due to its beauty, its people, and the family members still residing there.Tom was a very social individual and loved his friends dearly. He enjoyed being the life of the party, whether he was playing poker, darts, or watching any of his beloved sports teams.
He was preceded in death by his father Thomas J. O’Toole IV, mother Beverly (Ayling) O’Toole, and son Christopher O’Toole. He leaves behind his two daughters, Stephanie O’Toole and Alyssa Hakunti, one grandchild, his brother Lawrence (Larry) O’Toole, and girlfriend Michelle Lee Ann Rose.
Due to the number of people who loved Tom, there will be two services held at Simcox-McIlvaine Funeral Home Inc (532 East Main Street, Lansdale PA) to give everyone a chance to say goodbye. The first service will be held on Friday, November 12th, 2021 at 6 – 8 PM. The second service will be held on Saturday, November 13th, 2021 at 11 AM – 1 PM. A live stream of the two services will be available for friends and family unable to attend.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Tom’s name to Last Chance Ranch or the Wounded Warrior Project.
Tom was my brother at arms. We met in the Army Reserves, and stayed friends and then distant friends for life. Tom was a loyal friend, and one that whenever we reconnected, it was as if we were just continuing our conversation. I regret not keeping closer tabs of my brother, and I will keep him with me till my end. Miss you brother…..see you soon.
You will be missed very much at work Tom. You made me laugh and had a calming demeanor in emergencies. Tom, ,Sue, and Mellisa the four of us, ballor nurses and friends I counted on every weekend. Life is unpredictable and difficult at times but you added friendship to mine for sure. Rest now. Until we meet again you will be thought of often and kept close to my heart. Condolences and prayers to Stephanie and family.
Tom, you touched so many peoples lives. When I met you in Skippack, within 5 minutes it felt like I knew you forever. But that’s who you were. You were friendly to everyone. People were drawn to you.
You are missed by so many. I know you are in a better place now. No pain. Thank you for being an amazing human being!! Until we meet again.💚
My condolences to Tom’s family. Many prayers.
We are sad to hear the death of our friend and cousin Tom O’ Toole.
Rose, Mickey and Ultan Mullen from Donegal, Ireland send our condolences to his family.
We enjoyed his company when he came to Donegal on two occasions, he was very proud and interested in his Irish connections and heritage. He always intended to come visit again. Mickey enjoyed staying with him and his mother in Penn.
Slain Thomas.
Ni Imithe Uainn Ach Romh Ainn
(Not gone, but ahead of us)
I felt you passing, my friend. You lived your life and you never let anyone feel like a stranger. You offered everyone your smile and your friendship. Thank you for being my friend, Tom.
I never met your amazing lady, Tom. I am so happy that you found the love of your life…
Thank you for always making me laugh and for making Baylor shifts go by so smoothly. You will forever be loved cherished and missed. Rest my friend, I am glad I got to spend the time with you that I did. Your legacy will live on and our last few moments together I will treasure forever! Xo