Gabor Emmil Vass–12/30/2021

Gabor Emmil Vass of 5143 Winterberry Dr. Doylestown Pa, passed on at Doylestown Hospital the morning of December 30th 2021, living 66 years, 9 months, and 7 days.

Born March 23rd 1955 in Molnaszecsőd/Ungarn Hungary to Julianna and Gergely Vass, Gabor emigrated to the United States when he was ~3yrs old, where he and his family settled down in the greater Philadelphia region. In this setting, he nurtured a fondness for actively being involved with trying to understand how things work. This natural curiosity led to self-sufficiency that was pervasive in his pursuits, whether it was mechanical in nature working on the cars he loved to drive or electronically in how to harness the power of energy flow. It was this curiosity that he gravitated toward, allowing him to see the forest and know it by the type and arrangement of trees it contained. Gabor followed his electrical engineering passion directly out of attending Bishop McDevitt High School and into college for a degree in electrical engineering from Temple University, and promptly began his career developing microprocessor enabled process flow control. He successfully wrote numerous articles in the design, application, and arrangement for process flow by magnetic flux changes, for which he was  awarded several patents. These were a set of accomplishments he dearly valued, only rivaled only by becoming an American citizen in 1993.

Switching gears from electroengineering, Gabor decided to reinvent himself by changing careers in the mid 2000s, he started a general contracting business, and eventually became a school bus driver transitioning into his retirement. He loved to be able to give back to the community by safely delivering school children that would facilitate their pursuit in knowledge and school experience for the next generation, and brought him much joy and satisfaction doing so.

Gabor was married (September 26, 1975) and divorced Nancy Jane Rose.

Family

Gabor is survived by an older brother (Gregory Vass); five children; Emmil and Sherri Vass, Robert Vass, Rebekah Vass, Jonathan Vass; and two grandchildren; Selina Vass, Alexander Vass, along with six nieces and nephews.

Dad was a cheerful, agreeable man who loved his children. Dad got along with those he enjoyed spending time with making new friends wherever he worked or frequented, usually by sporting a little quick wit, a laugh and humor. He was also adamant with where he stood and frequently voiced his opinions on the latest topics he thought were highly important. Dad loved spending time with family, watching a good movie, eating Good and Plenty licorice, and of course everything syfy!

Dad was always game for treasure hunts, walking the Wissahickon, and would readily help as long as the promise of a Hershey’s bar with almonds or a meal was involved. Dad was always great in a pinch, and loved developing solutions. Dad constantly surprised people with his knowledge of and physical capabilities toward the projects he undertook, which usually was not too bad for a little Hungarian boy. He was more than a father, he was a great parental friend for which his availability and involvement will be sorely missed. Dad was relentless in doing his best and not shying away from incorporating logical approaches. He led by example using the process of elimination in problem solving, being educated prior to implementation, double-checking, and encouraged [to] “always read the fine print.”

One of Dad’s best qualities was his capacity for patience, followed by his aptitude for learning, and gift of gab especially when teaching from a knowledgeable position. As children we always questioned why we often needed to sit and just watch as he performed tasks…leading to the inevitable ask… “Why?” This is what he loved. He didn’t seem to mind how simple or complex the task/question was, instead used the opportunity to explain the how, why, and when which started as simple explanations (which felt like an eternity as children) and matured into experienced life-lessons. Dad encouraged us to be curious and ask questions for understanding, and by doing so, prepared us for independence and self-sufficiency in the years to come. May we all strive to reach the same richness of patience as Dad had embodied and rewards that come from it. 

From dirt fishing to deep sea fishing, Placer gold hunting to wiffle ball bunting, swimming and diving to learning manual transmission flat shifting and driving. Rock and stone collecting on beaches to sneaking out with grandchildren for Rita’s Georgia Peaches. Searching for properties, making memories, taking pictures, taking time, Flea Markets, Yardsales, Snowballs, Snowmen, Tools, Gadgets, WHAT’S FOR DINNER? Chicken fingers, time lingers, happy hour, this fly is sour, “I just can’t I need a Coke,” baby Alexander is crying so to soothe in a pinch a handmade bird is flying….Selina preferred her Pop Pop Vass’s Champion puppet and his sweet tooth, pictures in a photo booth. Why does it work? How does it work? What can be better? Unconventional improvements….Maybe hidden Wisdom, Outside the box…What do you know? Look up…..no lid.….Hmmmmmmmmmmm….I wonder…..What If…..

           DAD….Thank You….

You are Missed, Loved, Not easily forgotten. You Are At Home, Whole, Surrounded by prior Friends and Family.

Service

The family will receive family and friends on Saturday, January 8, 2022, from 9:30 am to 11 am, at Simcox-McIlvaine Funeral Home, 532 E. Main Street, Lansdale, Pa 19446. A Service for Mr. Vass will begin at 11 am. Interment will be private.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests any donations be directed toward Last Chance Ranch. Our Father had great love and fondness for animals (four legged friends).

7 thoughts on “Gabor Emmil Vass–12/30/2021

  1. The Faculty and Staff of McDonald Elelmentary School would like to extend their deepest condolences to your family. We will miss Gabor and have made a donation to the Last Chance Ranch in his name.

  2. Thank you for watching out for my daughter Nicole on the bus. Thank for making a child who hated middle school love it because she got to see you twice a day. Thank you for listening to her rattle about everything she loved and telling her about yourself. Thank you for happily accepting every drawing, card, present and cookie she gave you. Thank your for stopping long after middle school ended to take stuff from her and share your smile with her. Thank you for the gift of colored pencils to encourage her to keep going with her art. Thank you for talking about her to your kids. That made my day and her last memory of you a great one. There isn’t enough ways to say thank you to you or words to express the encouragement, love, affection and over all caring you gave to her. Rest in peace.

  3. Uncle Gabor, I will miss you and I am sorry it had been a while since we last saw each other. You were always kind to me and I will always fondly remember staying at both apartment and houses with you and Aunt Nancy when I was younger. I will never forget playing the very earliest of computer games with you where there was no video…It didn’t matter – you were so excited by the technology and it’s potential and I was having a great time just being with you. I remember it like it was yesterday. Rest In Peace and thank you for your love and support as I was growing up.

  4. I’ve Never met a more Wonderful Human Being in my Life, It was such a Honor and Privilege to have the Pleasure of Knowing him, Working with him and to have been a Friend of his. He is so sorely Missed! The World would be a Better Place if we would have more people like him. He always took the time to help someone if they needed something that he was able to help with. Never too Busy to say Hello or answer a Question. Truly a Remarkable, funny, Considerate Person! You just can’t say enough Good things about him. He Never had a bad word to say about anyone, always Happy and in a Good Mood. Good Father who loved his Children very much ! And the Best Driver ever ! You will Always hold a special place in my heart for the Great Example that you are #46 !!! Heaven has definitely gain another Angel !

  5. I have had the pleasure of knowing Gabor for 5 years. I came as a shock to me learning of of his passing. He was a great friend and he will be missed. I will miss the challenging conversation with him and his company on Thursday Evenings. I wish the best for your family and may je rest in peace. Edward M Hoffman – Bus Driver

    • I so greatly enjoyed being one of the three Musketeers with Gabor and Tom Fuller for breakfast at the diner most mornings. On occasion, we were joined by Frannie, a businesswoman friend of mine, who was quickly taken by Gabor’s intelligence, wit and sophistication, so much so, that the news of his sudden passing, has left her deeply saddened and unconsolable. Gabor, you had a profound and positive effect on everyone you met. You helped me greatly in my life as you did with many others. There are no words to adequately express my gratitude to you. I will personally miss your friendship greatly.

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